30 minutes

Coffee/Tea/Mocktails/Cocktails compatibility meeting
This is not in lieu of screening. Screening and prepayment in full is required.


1-3 hours

Start with cocktails/snack and and let things progress naturally.


1-6 hours

Start with a meal and let things progress naturally.


Deposit Required

Details given after screening, discretion and simplicity are paramount.

All of these options are available as part of my normal schedule, whether touring or in Raleigh.

I’m available pretty much anywhere in the Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill area with our dates beginning no later than 8pm. (This means we can begin at 8pm, not that we must part ways by 8pm.) I do not offer incall in Raleigh, that is for you to arrange. (If I’m touring your city, I’ll always offer a pleasant incall, hopefully well-located.)

We don’t always have to meet at a bar or restaurant. If you have a unique idea in mind, something that might be fun, let me know!

You’re reserving a block of my time for our mutual pleasure and what we do with that time does not have to follow a script but does include time outside the room if we spend two hours or more together. You’re not going to create a situation where I’m stuck staring at the same four walls for hours on end. If you have a wish for complete privacy, then please keep our time at or below two hours.

Extending our time together is decided on a case-by-case basis, and only after we’ve successfully met within one of the above options.

So let’s Meet!

If you have no questions about travel, deposits/cancellations, or my schedule, then this is as far as you need to read. (Those questions are covered if you keep scrolling.)

And what of Travel, you ask?

Fly Me To You/FMTY, or private travel, is the absolute best way to ensure I’m where and when you want me to be.

I live in Raleigh, NC and will remain here for the foreseeable future. The simplest method of handling travel is a flat additional fee for travel that covers my travel-time and expenses. What I do and where I go when I arrive is up to you, lodging is not included in my travel fee.

The deposit is 20% of your chosen option + my travel fee.

Domestic Travel Fees

Greensboro, Winston-Salem, Fayetteville, Charlotte, Richmond

+ 500

Please note: lodgings are not included in my travel fee. That is for you to arrange.

+ 700

Please note: lodgings are not included in my travel fee. That is for you to arrange.

+ 1000

Please note: lodgings are not included in my travel fee. That is for you to arrange.

+ 2000

Please note: lodgings are not included in my travel fee. That is for you to arrange.

International FMTY

RDU offers non-stop flights to a few international destinations of note, like London, Paris, Montreal. Or anywhere else through connecting flights. Ask about your preferred destination!

My international FMTY rate includes: our time together. You arrange any necessary lodgings and provide international first or business class airfare.

International Options

3000/1-3 hours
4000/1-6 hours

A 50% deposit + full airfare is required.

If you travel to Raleigh

I highly recommend staying at The Umstead or the 21C. Both have excellent rooms and restaurants; The Umstead has a great spa and lovely, natural grounds to roam (and the delight that is Heron’s). The 21C is in downtown Durham, which has plenty of new, good restaurants and is pleasant for a quiet stroll (and ice cream!). The hotel itself features modern art and touring exhibits.

Required For All

And Cancellations

I like having a confirmed schedule. So should you, if you’re serious about meeting. I will not consider our time reserved until I receive your deposit. For obvious reasons, this means last-minute requests aren’t going to work out.

The base deposit is 20%, unless otherwise noted. Any balance should be paid in full immediately upon arrival. If we’re meeting in public, a discreet gift card or magazine is always good.

Cash, of course, is easiest, and I accept credit cards (Visa, Mastercard, American Express, Discover).

If I Cancel

All deposits are non-refundable. The sole exception is if I cancel.

You’ll be refunded 100% of your deposit and travel fee.

If You Cancel

If you cancel with more than 7 days notice, I’ll credit any unused portion of the deposit/travel fee to a rescheduling within 6 months (if purchased travel is non-refundable, you’ll have to pay for it again). This goes for changing plans by a few hours as well, airlines often don’t handle schedule changes very well. I’ll do my best, of course.

If you cancel with more than 48hrs notice from the time of our meeting, you lose your deposit/travel fee in full.

If you cancel with less than 48hrs notice, you lose your deposit in full and I ask that you pay for 50% of the time scheduled.

If less than 24hrs notice, 100% of the total is expected.


My active and current schedule is always available for you, normally about a month in advance. The further out you can plan, the more likely it is that you get the day and time of your preference.