Pursuit, Yours and Mine
I relish a genuine connection that leaves my heart beating faster, wondering when I’ll get to see you again. Those who have given me my best memories are my guide and inspiration behind my words. I am looking for the few, not the many.
Barefoot luxury is a perfect descriptor for me: casual, natural, real, enjoyable, perfect. Extraordinary in an unassuming, natural way.
I grew up in a very small town, which was a huge motivator to want to see the rest of the world; and I have, almost all of my travels were on my own. I’ve lived in countries other than the US, and spent time in nearly every state.
If you browse my Instagram, you’ll notice I like seeing, doing, experiencing. I don’t like performing, posing, exhibiting.
I like exploring and one of the things I like exploring most is other people. I’m not psychic, but I am a responsive, warm listener, naturally-inclined and honed by experience. Kindness and attentiveness is a dying art.
Complex and intense under a light and frivolous surface, I’m relaxed while being a slow burn. Never coarse, never too familiar, but forthright with a dash of humor.
You’ll find me calm and reserved when we first meet. Underneath all my INFJ introvertedness is a compassionate, empathetic soul. I can be earnest to a fault. Empty flattery and hollow words don’t come easily to me; sweetness and honesty does. My sense of humor is wry and often obscure, or dark, or completely corny. Sorry in advance.
The Amaia Cheat Code
- Extremely brief sketch of the INFJ personality
- Excellent executive summary of who INFJs are
- Good summary of the INFJ type, and relationship experiences
- Extremely thorough overview of an INFJ, with several sub-topics
- Another long look at the INFJ personality in general and in relationships
- In-depth look at how INFJs process the world, including developmental stages by age
Every single INFJ meme if you Google for those.
For those who may wonder about why I bothered to gather and post all these links…it’s very INFJ of me.
You truly love women and all things feminine. You adore women and exploring the erotic differences between your yang and my yin. Those differences take many forms, from the physical to emotional.
You long to lose yourself in the moment with a highly-responsive woman, not an actress. Such a woman excites you, not intimidates you. Real is sexy to you, as it is to me. Genuine is your preference for all things, especially the quality of your relationships.
No matter your motivation, you want a simple relationship with a complex person, someone you’ll never find through work or at your local bar.
Though you’re successful, you don’t rely on labels to denote quality (you like what you like). You’re an intelligent man hiding a strong sensual streak under your workaday suit (or uniform!). You’re not indecisive and prefer to be a man of action, rather than letting life happen to you. I like men with a certain amount of life experience, gravitas, and worldliness. Such men are a counterpoint to my sweetness and softness.
Yin to yang.
That’s the ideal, isn’t it?
Field Guide to Amaia
- A taller-than-she-seems 5’8″
- Always shiny red toenails
- Notably soft, smooth skin
- Orders Green Tea Lattes at Starbucks
- Wears identifiable bracelet
- Scowls at non-frequent fliers in precheck
- Often uses a Leica Q
Taken Neat, Please
So while I’m not good at inflating your ego if that’s your expectation; I’m perfect for a man who likes women like his bourbon: no ice, a little sweet, a little complex, a little spicy, and no watering it down to blandness.